Author name: Ross

Hi All - I’m Ross, one of the co-founders of this site. I’m really excited with my partner Bev to share our enthusiasm for our amazing Lifestyle Community. We want to create a drama-free, safe space where folks of a similar level of life experience to ourselves can connect and have an open and accepting environment to explore and discover how incredible the LS can be – even at OUR age! To quote Bev – “Why Deny Yourself Pleasure?” A little about me – I’m a fit, active, straight male who despite my chronological age believes life should be lived with pleasure and joy at all times! I came into the LS in 2018, in my mid-50’s, after my vanilla marriage ended and I was finally at a place mentally where I could begin to explore the idea of fulfilling my sexual fantasies – in particular joining another established secure couple interested in MFM (my biggest fantasy)! I didn’t know what the Lifestyle was, I’d never heard of any “Swinging” clubs and I certainly didn’t know how to begin. I ended up joining an Adult Dating Site intended for sexual connections and primarily targeted at couples looking for other couples or singles. As a single male I went through all the initial rejection that was to be expected but ended up eventually meeting some great people who helped me not only fulfill but also explore a great many fantasies that I had. I ended up meeting Bev at a Lifestyle club when we were introduced by a mutual friend. We were both single in the LS at the time but have now been together as each other’s primary partner for about 6 yrs. Now for the good stuff - our play dynamic: We are a full swap couple, generally same room but we do play separately. We are very selective both as a couple and individually and only practice safe sex using condoms. We also test regularly when we play with others. For me 100% enthusiastic consent by all parties is a requirement at all times. If it’s not a Fuck Yes then it’s a no. I adhere to a No Drama philosophy in life and the Lifestyle. We’re only on this planet for a short time. Let’s enjoy ourselves and each other while we can. Sharing is Caring!